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Tips on writing a Breakup letter:

  1. Send a hand written letter.  It is okay to organize your thoughts on a computer, but write out the final draft of your break up letter.
  2. Consider carefully what you write.  A break up letter may be read again and again.
  3. Avoid writing anything negative or harsh.  You do not want to have any regrets when the emotions of the moment have faded.
  4. Be clear that the romantic relationship is over.  Give him the gift of a clean break.
  5. Mention how you have been struggling with the decision and that writing this letter to him is very hard for you to do.
  6. Say you are not right for each other.  This leads to the conclusion that the failure of the romantic relationship is not anyone’s fault and that the relationship can not be repaired.
  7. Do not list his romantic shortcomings.  He probably does not need to be reminded of them and it may lead him to believe, if he changes his behavior, the relationship will be restored.
  8. Consider listing your own romantic short comings.  This can reinforce that the two of you are not right for each other.
  9. Be positive about him and his future.  This reassures him that you still think that he is a good man and that he can find a wonderful woman who will fully appreciate him.
  10. Do not suggest being friends.  While this always sounds nice, it rarely happens.  It may help you in your transition from a romantic couple, but it is often a burden to him.
  11. Wish him well.  This reinforces that you still care about him and think highly of him.
  12. Just sign it with your first name.  Do not sign the letter “Love, …”.  This only causes confusion.
  13. After you finish the break up letter, set it aside for a few days.   Before you send the letter, read it again to make sure it clearly reflects your feelings.

When it isn’t possible to break off a romantic relationship in person, a well written break up letter is sometimes the best way to compassionately end the relationship.

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If you still need some help than please try to get satisfied from these Golden Words of breakup quotes

Breakup Quotes :: 1

The hottest love has the coldest end.

Socrates

Breakup Quotes :: 2

I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken — and I’d rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.

Margaret Mitchell

Breakup Quotes ::3

Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there.

Otomo No Yakamochi